An intriguing tweet...
The other day while scanning the many Tweets on relationships and divorced dating I happened upon a quote that caught my eye...
"Life is short so why pass up great sex if you don't have to?"
The quote was tweeted by SingleMomSeekin and included a link "Having Sex with Your Ex" to a related blog post a must read given the quote...
I've lived it...
Sex with your ex may seem like a guilty pleasure still, having sex with your ex is a bad idea on so many levels. How do I know...I did it, and lived to regret it!
I understand why we do it...familiarity, safety from disease, etc., but the reasons don’t outweigh the hazards.
Another roll in the hay...
Unless all you both want is another roll in the hay, it’s misleading to go ahead and sleep with your ex...
In the first place,
- It keeps you from moving on and going forward with your life.
- It can be misleading creating a glimmer of hope that the relationship isn’t really over.
There is no such thing as halfway...
If you maintain a connection with your ex...even if it seems to be just physical to you...it can be giving a very mixed message. There can be no healthy halfway. Either you’re done with each other, or you’re not.
Temptation and heartache...
So no matter how appealing the sex may be, resisting the temptation with your ex can save you and your ex hours of pain and heartache.
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Frank Spitzig
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